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[`_xMysticque]

why our sch dun have dota compyyyy~ =/

[ShAdOwKnIgHt™]

=.=.. lol..

[tears]

last year have.. but this year the format change.. so dun have .

[Red Tortoise]

Originally Posted by `_xMysticque

why our sch dun have dota compyyyy~ =/

YOYO CJ! -kawaii- here =] det03

[`_xMysticque]

looooolz =P yo

[Zapper]

Lol. So many dets here.

[maomaochong]

Everybody needs a little time away … Even lovers need a holiday, far away from each other.—Lyrics from
“Hard to Say I’m Sorry,” by Chicago
Going separate ways as a couple is often read as a prelude to separation (which has its own pressures),
but it doesn’t have to be. In fact, many experts agree that taking separate vacations as a couple,
within certain guidelines, can actually help to enhance the relationship and allow each partner to keep
it in perspective.
There are rules for making separate vacations work, however. Ruth Peters, who has written extensively on
family dynamics and is a contributor to the Today show on NBC, believes that separate vacations should be
an addition to our lives, not an escape. Remember, too, that one size does not fit all. Many couples
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Keep Communication Lines Open
Agree about the ground rules for communication before you leave on your trip. Schedule a set time to
check in and assure your partner that you’re okay, tell him that you miss him, and fill him in on what
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If this is the first time you’re proposing to fly solo, make sure your partner understands your reasons
for doing so. If he or she expresses fears of infidelity or dissatisfaction with the relationship on your
part, then you might consider spending your vacation money on couples counseling instead; partnerships
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other’s physical space.
“A successful monogamous relationship shouldn’t mean giving up who you are or your independent
activities,” says Dr. Peters. “A successful marriage or monogamous relationship does entail the
willingness to make some sacrifices in order to accommodate the other person.”
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Tell your partner that you just need some time for yourself and encourage him to do the same. Listen to
his concerns and help him understand that your decision has nothing to do with the relationship. You’re
not separating yourself from him; you’re just trying to schedule some quality time with an old friend—
yourself.
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In the current economic climate, most families have trouble eking out just one vacation a year, let alone
one per partner. Be realistic about how you can allocate resources for your time away. Will your partner
be able to do the same? Can you take money from somewhere else in your budget to help pay for your trip?
Can you find some alone time in a way that is less expensive? For example, could you spend one day at a
spa rather than a weeklong cruise? Also consider setting up separate savings accounts for your separate
vacations. That way, you and your partner each have the responsibility of paying for your own trips and
you can avoid some of the resentment that inevitably arises when one of you is sipping Mai Tais on the
beach in Malibu while the other is working.